Stop chasing a guy, instead pursue becoming a higher version of you and you would meet a guy that is more deserving of you
Have you idolize the idea of a relationship?
Have you been taken lightly for things you do for him?
Have you lost your self worth and values while trying to pursue and keep him?
Have you been the one in the driver seat of the relationship and if you don't do something nothing gets done?
Have you lost your sense of Worth and value while trying to please him?
These things does happen if you define your life progress though the eyes of a man‼️
It's time to Get the hell up girl, it's time to take control of your life.
Get up, Level up, and bring out the Queen within you
You see Honey, men love to chase, pursue and get hold of what they pursue; but as a lady if you're the one pursuing him, calling Him, texting him, and he doesn't sit by himself to do those things for You, Chances are, he's getting it from somewhere and he's not into you.
Antidotes: Take a journey Back to YOU and fall madly in love with yourself. Commit to become the better version of yourself. Learn what's your purpose is, and work daily pin pursing it. Commit to 102% change. Get hold of your life, create a life vision. List all of the desires you have within your heart, most case, God placed those in your heart. Pray regarding it daily and work every single day to bring it to life. If you are not sure how to: this is what this brand was created, to give you a roadmap on how. We have personal coaching programs that guilds you on how. I have shared also some chapters within my book "Step Up" how you can start and what actions you need to take to get started.
Being a lady does not mean you sit down, look in the sky and wait for prince charming to come and save you. This sounds more of a low quality woman. You need to understand that, high quality ladies work to create their dream life.
Work on your projects and get busy pursing the vision God gave you to birthed in the earth. Living your life for a man is not going to give the fulfillment you need. Don't get me wrong, I have family life and relationship, but the issue here is, when you live only to please the man, day dreaming about how you would have a perfect marriage while you sit dormant is a huge mistake. We all have something unique that is expectant of us to be brought into the World. You owe it to your family and community to BE that; You owed it to God to complete that purpose on your life.
It's going to be hard especially if you've been that lady that did everything to please a guy.
Stop‼️ stop chasing guys‼️ stop calling Him, stop‼️ texting him, stop‼️ keeping up to date with all his social media platforms.
Let the focus Now be YOU, focus on you, focus on developing yourself and birthing a new version of YOU.
Remember that, down the road of becoming, You will meet someone who will be more deserving of you.
Love you ❤️s
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